Weekly Torah Portion

Parshas Ki Seitzei 5786

You May Just Have What Someone Is Looking For

Rabbi Dovid Yachnes

Men's Programming

When we hear the idea of “returning a lost object,” we naturally think of something tangible: a wallet found on the street, a set of keys left behind, or a valuable item that someone misplaced. The Torah places great importance on returning what belongs to another person as we find in this week’s Torah portion. ”לֹא תִרְאֶה אֶת־שׁוֹר אָחִיךָ אוֹ אֶת־שֵׂיוֹ נִדָּחִים, וְהִתְעַלַּמְתָּ מֵהֶם; הָשֵׁב תְּשִׁיבֵם לְאָחִיךָ” – “You shall not see your brother’s ox or sheep straying and ignore them; you shall surely return them to your brother.” But perhaps there is another kind of lost object—something far more precious—that we have the opportunity to return.

Sometimes, a person can lose their connection to Jewish wisdom, Jewish meaning, or even to their own Jewish identity. They may be searching for answers without knowing where to look. They may never have encountered an idea from Torah that could change the way they see themselves, their relationships, or the world around them. If we happen to possess an insight that could help someone find their way, perhaps we have more than an opportunity—we have a responsibility. It can be as simple as sharing an idea at the right moment. A thought from Torah that helped us through a difficult time. A Jewish perspective that suddenly makes sense of a question someone has been asking or a piece of wisdom that brings clarity, purpose, or hope.

We often underestimate the impact of a single conversation. But what if the idea we casually share becomes the spark that reconnects someone with something they didn’t even realize they were missing? Returning a lost soul doesn’t require a pulpit, a title, or years of scholarship. It requires awareness, courage, and a willingness to share what has enriched our own lives. Sometimes all it takes is one meaningful idea, one piece of Torah wisdom, one moment of Jewish insight.

The next time you encounter someone who is searching, wondering, or simply curious, don’t assume there is nothing you can offer. You just may have in your hands something they’ve been missing. And perhaps returning what was lost isn’t always about finding someone’s belongings. Sometimes, it is about helping someone find themselves.

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