Parshas Vayechi 5786
Eternal Giving
Sendy Freud
Parshas Vayechi opens with Yaakov Avinu nearing the end of his life. Yet, the Torah tells us “Vayechi Yaakov”, Yaakov lived. Rashi, the primary commentary on the Torah, famously points out that even after his passing, Yaakov is still considered alive. His life was not defined only by his physical state, but by the values he transmitted and the responsibility he passed forward to his children.
This idea feels especially meaningful for us at JOIN.
This week, Rabbi Yachnes officiated a Mes Mitzvah, a burial for a person who otherwise would have had no one to care for them. There is something deeply humbling about that moment. No recognition and no audience or family standing nearby. Just a Jew who deserved dignity, and a community that stepped up quietly to ensure it was given.
In Parshas Vayechi, Yaakov’s final request to his children is to ensure that he is buried properly with dignity and respect. The Torah is teaching us that how we give of ourselves to another, especially when no one is watching matters profoundly.
A Mes Mitzvah is the purest expression of that value. It reminds us that Jewish life is not only about moments of inspiration, but about acts of responsibility. It is about being counted on to help another especially when it matters most.
As we enter a new year, many of us think about growth, change, and meaning. This week’s Parsha reframes that conversation. A meaningful year is not measured only by what we achieve personally, but by how we care for others, how we strengthen our community, and how we live with consistency and integrity.
JOIN exists for that very reason. To create a community where Jewish life is lived and shared. Where every person matters and where each of us has a role, whether through learning, supporting, or simply being present.
Yaakov knew that if his children lived with responsibility and unity, his life would continue through them.
That is our mission as well.
As we move forward into this new year, may we take inspiration from Yaakov Avinu and from the quiet holiness of a Mes Mitzvah. May we continue to build a community that shows up for celebration, for learning, and when it matters most. And may our actions ensure that the values we care about truly live on. Have a great Shabbos!
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